Over a hundred posts and the thread gets locked.

Also more in the spirit of being nice I believe.

You wanted to know if DB even works.

It worked for me man. In that I am married to my MLC WAW, living in the same house, being parents and partners again being married.

It would have worked for me even if she didn't come back.

Because the skills, I guess skills is the correct word, learned from DBing would have helped me in my next realtionship, just trned out that was with my wife.

My old marriage is dead, and thank God for that, it was a poor thing.

I was a WAH in my first marriage, and I can say that if my wife then had DBed, I likely wouldn't have left.
But being blamed for everything wrong in the marriage, and seeing no reason to change anything on her end, or the changes being temporary to get me to come back?

DBing works, but only if you do.



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