Speaking as both a WAH and an LBH, you're attacking one of the coolest people here.
Sandi's insight is invaluable and her desire to help comes from the heart.
Speaking as both, the LBS who doesn't look at address and fix their own problems they added to the failing of the marriage isn't likely to be married.
If DBing was common sense the divorce rate wouldn't be so high. As for it being off base...I suggest trying some of the counter intuitive things before dismissing them out of hand.
And the PM's don't work here.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
