She says seperate or divorce after her affair help

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Well I forgot I had this thread going because of mine in newcomers but OM wife told me today that OM figured out he needed to choose and is choosing family over friendship with my W. OM W also blocked my W phone from his cell. Apparently reality is catching up to OM. My w filed for divorce end last week she fessed up sunday I have yet to be served the law says 6 months to a earliest hearing after being served. So a little time for her head to clear and me to soul search. She is actively trying to buy a house and wants to be done with everyone still wants OM. What fun I am at the whatever point.