G, I think you have to be extremely cautious and not read too much into what transpired over the weekend. Yes, you spent some time w/him, but if you noticed...when you texted him a couple of times, he did not respond. It's called the dance. Once they rope you back into the dance, they drop you for a while. I would keep my expectations at zero and not look for him to return to reality for a while. He's still very confused and if he's not comprehending what you are telling him about the divorce, then that says it all. Maybe he doesn't want to appear to be the bad guy here and is hoping that you'll go ahead and file...no one knows for sure. However, if you are not sure about it yourself, you can request a postponement, if you are the one that filed.
I would follow my lawyer's advice and get all of the paperwork ready to go. Holidays are a difficult time for all of us, but more so for the mlcer. I would continue moving forward and living my life as if he may not return. Do not call him again...allow him to come to you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
