I'll say this, if you wondering if your marriage can survive an affair, if the trust can come back and sense of security, it can. It takes work on both your parts but it can come back.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK