Looks like she wants to talk...seeing she is hanging around, staying at home, calling you. Maybe things did not go too well with OM, or else she would be in 7th heaven. I think you are right to push it off for now, especially if you are feeling that way. You'll just end up being angry. But aren't you curious? I would be...
Looking back, there were 2x my H visited OW. The first time he acted like your W when he got back, and I learned that the visit was dissapointing for him, and caused him to feel closer tio me, almost reassuring me that he was on a journey back home, he even said that he felt he had turned around and was heading back. The 2nd time when he left we were actually close, when he came back he was so distant, and later I learned that at that time OW was almost reciprocating, and he was very happy with her during that visit, and so in my mind I pictured him as walking away again.


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go