Bottom line is I'm not moving out of our house - it's in both of our names. I just hope she sticks to the plan to goto counselling, and I hope see can come to see that it's not as bad as she thinks.

I've been reading other people that have been going through sitch's with WAW and they are going on 2 years of "bettering themself"...uhhhh that makes me sick.

If we worked together on it we could seriously have this sorted out in a couple of months - I guess it's the mind state their in.

I'm trying to save some money on the side (still in a bank account) that my W doesn't know about - but I'm not sure if that will really help me either?

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011