Years ago, yes H was a very very angry person. He suffers from anger depression also and stopped taking his meds 3 weeks before he left and I had no clue until he was gone and I found the bottle.
Anyway, OUCH. That really hurt when you said there probably is some relief on his part that the divorce is moving along and he is getting rid of you. Yes, I believe that was true for a while and he would even say it to me, but I honestly don't believe that anymore. He just seems so confused about everything.