". I said remember you said "for better or for worse?...guess that doesn't mean anything anymore."
He said he respects my opinion... that he feels differently than I do because "everything matters to him."" --------------------------------------------------------------
I'm a little confused at the reaction here. I take his comment to be: "I disagree, "for better, for worse" does matter. Moreover everything about our R and M matters."
Why do you think he means something other than that?
You aren't DONE or you wouldn't be having these exchanges with H. So, if you aren't DONE, maybe it is time to stop trying to be "right." It sounds like he is looking for a way back that allows you both to move forward in a positive way.