as some of you have read in my original stich can i save my marriage im in quite a delima. To update things are still pretty much the same. She still says she is done and wants out but doesn't want to hurt my feelings. There is still no one else in the picture for her and she does little things here and there but mostly stays home. Ive initiated no contact and have began working on myself and dating a little bit just casual nothing serious. Saturday night i had a guy with me that had to stop by a party my w was at but i sat in the car and didn't get out. he said she asked him who was in the care with him and why he had left the lights on so she couldn't see in. She told a friend that marriage shouldn't be hard and that when two people argue so much and make each other miserable there has to be a point to just get out.
