Hi, I'm sorry to read about your situation ending up like this. You do have a relationship re: parenting and that might be something to start building on. I'm reading DR and wondering if you've tried any of the steps. Have you done any 180s? Have you tried step 2 where you detail on paper what you want and what the solutions are? Do you wear your wedding ring?
I feel for you. My H says he doesn't want to work on the relationship anymore. He says we've tried and it's still not working. We've lived as roommates for the last year and now we're into a 2 mo separation phase. It's painful feeling so unfluential, but you have time and friendship and your children.
I hope others will pipe in with their thoughts and support.
