Wow GAG another great evening of TT. You really know how to finish the evening. Ha Ha! Love that goodnight KISS. Sometimes that is exactly how it begins.

I thought the same here!

QUOTE:
"so I got the distinct impression that XH will bring GF#2 to his mother's on Christmas Day but that he is willing to schedule their visit around my timetable"

I immediately thought that XH was thinking he could plan a visit to his M to coincide with your visit and the GF will not be with him.

Many many many times these WAS's will bring up the past over and over and over again. I usually just kept it short and sweet. You are right ex h I did work too much or something along those lines. I mentioned the tongue biting. This is where it came in real handy. Saved me from many fights. Now my h wasn't always right, but I had to think was I trying to draw him in or push him further away. It just didn't seem that important to me anymore to defend my actions, because when I did that h usually stormed out or left and we were back to square one. Took me a long long long time to figure this one out. Who said I am stubborn. Ha Ha!

Good job!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"