Read & advise/comment, please:

Stbx messages me that he is glad to see my life is turning on well w/ school and everything, that I deserve the best.

...?

And finally... an acknowledgement:

"I know this isn't easy for you."

Wow... so he knows? Good. And where does that leave me? Nowhere, that's where. I said remember you said "for better or for worse?...guess that doesn't mean anything anymore."

He said he respects my opinion... that he feels differently than I do because "everything matters to him."

Huh?

Don't even know how to respond to that. What does one say?

M seems like such a farce. A joke. I think the only way he will ever truly know my feelings if it one day he is on the receiving end of this BS.