Depends on what you're comfortible with. No gift at all may send a negative message. My WAW flat out told me not to get her anything. (Probably feeling bad about all out money she's been spending on her MLC) But I was xmas shopping with S/11 so I got her a couple jars of salt-n-pepper cashews, which is practically all she eats - you know MLC trying to loose weight an all. Nothing fancy, just a little peace offering.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."