Sounds like she's trying to assuage her guilty feelings. Keep doing what you're doing. The more you back away the more she'll pursue. That could adversly affect R with OM, you never know. You know her best; trust your instincts/intuition. Come to the board for "opinions". But sift through them and use only what you feel comfortible with.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
