Oh please sandi. You missed my point. You simply have no perspective on the LBS. NONE!!!!! Yet you go out of your way to point this to SBH. Hypocrisy much.
I understand the natural inclination to defend your WAW actions. I really do. Perhaps you don't even realize how your posts read. But they sound very defensive to a LBH. Your "perspective" can only go so far.
Like you said. I don't know you but also you don't know me. I do dislike the whole idea of a WAW. I'll admit it straight up. It's not right. But neither is treating your spouse the way some of these LBH treated their spouse.
You dont know if I'm ready to learn. I have learned a ton, but frankly most if what was in DB is basic common sense and I know enough to see where the DB process is off base.
If I didn't learn I wouldn't have progressed to where I am in such a short time. I still have a ways to go like everyone here.
If you really wanted to address some one privately I think there is a pm option.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.