You know, perhaps spending Christmas with them could bring up painful memories for him or something--why else would he not want to be with the kids? Or OW's family has major plans and they come first? I know we can't mindread...but you KNOW that he loves his kids and wouldn't just not want to see them!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
