You're not alone man. You have to let this thing play out. The EA if there is one will fizzle eventually, they all do. I am reading a book by James Dobson and he says "open the cage." Some spouses feel trapped in a cage. May be yours does. Move forward with your life, but do it for you. If she comes back or even i she does not, do it for you.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."