Look forward to life w/o him. That's what you have to do to detach. I am not saying that's the only future, b/c you could still grow old together. But you have to accept the other future as well for your own sake.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
