hbm-- What you are experiencing is part of the normal Marriage Map, and it would be a shame if it goes to divorce. If it isn't what you want, don't accept that that is the path you are on. Stop with the talks that are headed that way.
How do those talks start? There are ways to stop them.
If you assumed that you are headed to riding this storm, how would you handle the holidays? I would imagine you would NOT be moving to the basement and you WOULD be going on with the holidays together. Just do that. If you have to for him, do it under the guise of making things easier for everyone else during the holidays.
Financial woes, job woes, other personal woes, unfortunately often dump on our our romantic relationships (marriages) and those with our children, whatever is closest to us. But it doesn't make that the real problem. You both are fairly young and your relationship is young. It's just a wave.
I hope you will develop your skills to ride it.
We're here to help.
You are NOT at this time in the LRT, but you are close. Do you have Divorce Remedy?
