GW- Separation was the last thing that I wanted also. But it hasn't been as bad as I thought. You need a break away from all this. Try to enjoy your space from your wife as much as you can. Try to let her go as much as you can during this time that you are separated. Realize who she is at the moment, and that is not someone who adds anything to your life. Know that whatever way things turn out you will be ok and you will find happiness. She is the one making the biggest mistake, b/c unfortunately for her you will probably realize that you don't need her in your life, especially what she is bringing to the table right now. I was the most scared for my son. But he has been ok. Your kids will be ok too. I work with a lot of children whose parents are divorced, and not to say that it is not hard on them b/c I'm sure it is, but they are great and happy kids. I am sorry that you are going through this!
