I am thankful that my wife at least had the decency to admit that she shares in the blame for our issues and and she said nothing I did excuses the EA. Unlike SBH, I love my wife dearly and cannot imagine being with anyone else for the rest of my years. I have loved her for 17+ years and that's what makes the EA so painful. So next time you get on your horse think of that.
Look, I'm not on any kind of a horse! You don't know me. You don't know what all I've experienced in my life! I'm glad you love your W, why would I not be? Why would you say to think about that the next time I got on my horse? Can you see how ready you are to attack a WAW? Until you get past that, you have a lot of healing to do.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
