Back to not so much as hello with W. Why? Well as I have learned throughout this ordeal, she is up to no good. I got a call from my attorney saying W is struggling to get by. She would like me to pay for all of the health insurance (which is actually on $45 for her part), also she wants $540 for child support instead of the calculated rate of $435. In addition she wants a temporary maintenance of $750 per mo. I was like struggling?!?! Really... She only has the 3 older kids 5-10% of the time. I have them 75-80%. She has no real meal expenses, no laundry, maybe uses 1 diaper a day. On top of that, I keep seeing her in new boots, jackets, clothes... Oh and her constant FB posts about Magarita Night... Going our for a DD, who wants to join me? (whatever that means). I told my attorney it's her fault she got a 3-bedroom "HOLLYWOOD" type apartment, which costs a whopping $1200 per mo. ARE YOU KIDDING?! I guess she expects me to pay for another of her horrible choices. I've already heard all the stuff about her being rediculous, I get it... I just want the redicilousness to stop. Nevermind the fact that I chose to pay her to have the kids... She'd be friggin getting zip or paying me perhaps based on me doing the gross majority of the raising of ALL the kids.
My attorney said I could pay her some of the $540 if I wanted or wait until the hearing... Uh! I'll wait thank you. I also told her regarding the maintenance and other balogna, "Over my dead body" and I refuse to pay her anything when she has no child expenses now. I explained how W has been playing the victim and lying up a storm. I told her I was the real victim, as 4 kids carried on in the background. I said I'm not paying to support her new lifestyle.
