My soul mate wants a divorce

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So sorry for your situation Mrs. B. I called in sick to work today too because my H told me he wanted a D. All this after he moved home in Sept. saying he missed me and loved me. He had moved out for 6 weeks and filed for D prior to that. now after being home 3 months he decides he doesn't have feelings of "passion" for me anymore. I am sure he will end up missing me again once I am gone, but not sure I can ever trust him. His words seem to mean nothing!

You sound very strong and are definitely doing a good job with LRT by not responding to his msgs. It can be so hard. It sounds like your H is trying to keep you waiting in the wings in case things don't end up working out with OW. He wants to have you to fall back on.

I hope you will start feeling better. You are not alone. Hang in there! How are you spending the holidays? Do you have family and friends available for support?