Sandi,
Yur advice is always welcome here. I am doing the best I can with what I have. And I do have quite a bit.

But it's hard to see the POV of a WAW because the wound is so deep and the betrayl so cutting.

As I have stated in the past, I take responsibility for all the pain I have caused her and I hope she takes 50% of the responsibility for the pain she has caused me. The EA puts us in a diffeent place as far as the pain scale.

Please keep posting. Your advice is helpful even if I need to vent sometimes. smile

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012