You are 100% correct that you are only hearing my side of the story. Maybe one day my W will open up and give her side of the story. Throughout this entire situation she has always been very closed.
I appreciate you taking the time to respond and I can understand how some people would choose to walk away after their LBS started dating someone else. It could be viewed similarly to those who choose not to try and work on the M after their S has an affair. Every person knows their own limits of what they will and will not tolerate. I have no idea where my W is coming from and I might not ever know.
I have not reached out to my W, with the exception of conversations that need to take place about the boys. I am going to move forward with living my life, letting her chase me, seeing her sometimes but not being available whenever it is convenient for her.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10
