OK, we had party at work today. I am bringing home 3 cookies (one for each of the kids and one for her).

That shows that I am thinking about her but not spending money and not going out of my way. And I think that's the important part, the thinking about her...

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012