Punchy, keep it going my friend. Those are all great signs. It will get worse before it gets better. Especially if she has truly cut off her EA.

Fill the void she now feels by leaving her EA as best you can. Don't come on too strong (I need to take my own advice here). But be there emotionally for her as long as you feel that SHE is comfortable with it.

There is no harder work in the world!

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012