I wonder the same thing a lot.
My WAW is not the same woman I fell in love with and married.
In fact she has become quite unattractive b/c of her attitude toward me and of course her choices.
I'd never fall for the shrew she has become.

But then I think I'll be damned if I am going to toss 18 of marriage years in the trash and ruin my children's lives and psyches.
I know I could fall in love w/her again, if DBing works.
These are the only things keeping me at it.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."