Thank you for your reply. Initally I would have had my H back for anything, but I guess that was desperation. I don't want him back now unless I know for sure it's me he wants to be with. Some days I'm so angry I don't know if I want him back at all. He let's me know he "misses" me and still "loves" me, but I can't help feeling he's just trying to keep me sweet. Regarding the OW H I agree I would have felt frightened speaking to him, and you know what, I agree re: warning H. He needs to face the consequences of his actiond like we all do. Thank you. I guess I knew the answer, sometimes you just need to hear someone else say it.
