Trusting My anniversary passed last week I noticed it..and let it go it does get easier never thought it would-- I beleive our xh are numb, so another death or loss i wonder if it means anything peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
My ex does not feel anymore. He is like a stone wall. I find that very sad....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
But then....he is out of your life. What is worse? His stone wall or staring at one. Go forward. Hugs. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Thanks for the reminder. I needed that. I don't have to be unloved, abandoned, hated, and disrespected anymore by a man with a heart of stone.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
One of my best days ever since the divorce........
Today was mediation with ex. He was asking for placement of my 16 year-old basically because he just wanted the child support reduced.
The mediator was awesome, very experienced and read right through my manipulative, scamming ex. She blasted him about him wanting sole placement explaining to him that a child needs both parents. He of course lost his temper and tried to chew out the mediator but she would not take any of his crap. I was able to say things that I have only dreamed about saying. It was amazingly cathartic. Ex left with his tail between his legs.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Finally! Someone has seen the light w/your xh! I'm glad you were able to voice your feelings/thoughts.
Merry Christmas! May the new year bring you peace and happiness!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I feel like a ton of bricks have been lifted off of me... Thanks for the support snod
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I'm sure the weight has been lifted. It's not easy dealing w/them.
Enjoy your holiday w/your family. I think things are starting to turn around for you and your family. Take some time to pamper yourself over the holidays and know that you are loved by all.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
