I know if I was on the fence and someone was showing me love and affection I would respond positivly...
Here is the possible problem with the small gifts, You know you would respond positivly...
What happens if she doesn't respond the way you want her too?
The little gifts, flowers? Ehhh...make a change and monitor results, so its not a bad idea. However it is a horrible idea if you put your expecations of how she is supposed to react to them on her.
They could help. But your expecations could hurt you.
Make sense?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
