You did the right thing by going. My H's grandfather passed away last year and me and the kids loved him so much but when I asked H if we could attend he said he didn't think it would we a good idea.
I was so hurt. I don't know how they do it.....our spouses. So instead I sent something to his father and step-mother's house from me and the kids and she sent back a nice thank you note.
Which probably killed her since H made me out to be the bad guy from the beginning I guess so none of his family would turn on him and he doesn't like to be alone.
H even said it on Wed. after our hearing for support. He said he is a family man and I know that and I in return said yes, but your own family you made should come before anyone else.
Anyway, if you get a chance can you hop over to my thread? I started a new topic. I need some advice. It is getting closer to D day thanks to H's lawyer.
