Follow your heart and disengage your brain.. you bought him a gift because you wanted to, give it to him with that sentiment and not a nervous I-hope-you-got-me-something-too-or-arent embarressed.. in other words, just give it with love and a smile.

I gave H a couple of little presents I knew he'd love even when he was with Helen!!! Although I did have to post them ;-)

And you got to stop jumping to negative conclusions Mish! Look at your cousins response..."She said she was planning on me coming and couldn't imagine going without me", thats pretty conclusive! You're like me, you worry too much wink

Happy Christmas and heres to a better year next year hey xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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