Preparing to file, Looking for advice here!

[newmama]

One of the items what what we'll do if we run into each other at a place we often frequented together. Really? That's discussion worthy? How the hell would I know? I told him I didn't know, that I'd never been divorced before. I should have told him it depended how much I'd had to drink Totally joking. I did tell him that I had not interest in being his "friend" or "buddy" if that helped clarify things for him. That he had not treated my like a "friend".

OK seeing this as one of your stbxh's concerns made me laugh--is he afraid you will come running at him and scream profanities? Is he afraid you will just ignore him? WTH?

But your response was EXCELLENT. Sorry, with divorce, you don't get to stay friends, mister! Being polite and civil is one thing but anything more...