Maybe you don't need to think so much about what she "might" become or do. You have enough of this day to take say grace over.
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Like how some days she does things that may be a little mean and uncaring. Things that are out of character for her because of what she is going through. I let stuff like this slide. I know it isn't the real her. It is scary seeing this in someone who never had it before. When she seems to be in these moods I try to just leave her alone, rather than say something.
And, that's the best thing to do. You realize this is not the "norm" for her and she's working stuff out. Even if you need to leave the house for a few hours, that's what you do. She will realize that when she acts like that that you don't want to be around her. She will start to get it together.
I read a book intitled, "Who's Pushing Your Buttons?" Very interesting. The button pusher has to learn that it doesn't work, and you have to learn not to react in the way the button-pusher expected.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
