(((((BobbiJo))))))
I'm inclined to say you shouldn't accept theses invitations, or at least not all of them. But first tell Dan not to make them in front of the kids. That backs you into a corner, and isn't fair for anyone.

Jeff
The poster formerly known as dry_heat

Me-56
D 11/30/09
M 1/25/13
S18,22,27,28