David, I remember you and your situation...it's been a long haul for you and your family. It sounds like your xw still isn't sure about her life and where she wants to land permanently. I pray that she finally comes out of her fog and realizes that you and your family are where she should have been all along.
Merry Christmas!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
