Thanks for the update. I've been on pins & needles.
I think it is may take the S for her to finally be hit with the cold hard facts about her OM and just how badly he wants a long lasting R with her. Reality will start pulling her out of the fog and her fantasy.
Oh,I am so sorry this has happened, GW.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!