As time goes by, it gets harder to remember the time slots. Also, you have to understand that "I" was a WAW who came here for help. Not many do that, you know?

I remember talking to my H when we were reconciling, and I admitted I had questioned if I had ever truly been in love with him. But then somewhere during my choosing to R, I rememeber how after we were first M, I would hate to see him leave for work every day and I would pray that nothing happened to take him away from me. I remember once crying at night b/c I felt so much love and didn't know how to what to do. I had the same experience when my first child was born. Different kind of love,but both were over-whelming and it was rather scary for me.

So, even if she doesn't say it out loud,she will begin to have rational memories. It was this board that was my MC and helped speed the process for me.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!