Here is an update. The OM's wife called me today to tell me that she was going to tell my wife that she does not blame her for the problems in her marriage. That they where there a long time ago. I suggest that she not do that but she did anyway.
Not sure that it had any real impact on my wife other then confirm with her that the OM connection has nothing to do with us.
Sue I feel really hopeless right now. She keeps insisting on telling me that her feelings on not being in love with me go back two or three years. As I try and explain it has everything to do with who I was at that time. She is more and more conviced that those feelings are gone and that they will not come back.
Says that this can't go on forever etc. Says that I am a good person and nice to her. Just does not know why she can't get the feelings back since she felt like that way before the OM. Did you feel like this also?
