She is being honest and open about her feelings in MC. If she wasn't, then you would be saying, "Why can't she just tell me what she feels?" Wives have a tendency to hold back things that they know their H's won't like. How many posts have I read from LBH's who cry that their WAW never told them how she felt? Well, your is expressing her fear that her in-love feelings may not return. This is true for every WAW. Yours is not unique!

So, you think you will apply the pressure? Or, since she hurt your fragile male ego, you'll just go find some chick that will stroke it? That'll really make things better!

Let her see your little boy reaction to what she said in MC and you won't get her back there. Yeah, rejection hurts. But remember what you asked me? H's want to forget their side of the responsibility of the breakdown in the M and blame EVERYTHING on the W b/c she had an EA. I bet she experienced some type of rejection at some point along the way.

You're the man here. Don't react out of a bruised ego.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!