Hi Trusting, yes I have had the same thought for a long while now, I think my ex is stuck and I think he will stay stuck, ah well so be it, life is too short to be bothered anymore so long as myself and my beautiful young man (son} are okay thats all that matters to me now, its ex's loss that he has not seen son flourish into the adorable young man he as become, merry christmas Trusting, xxxxxxxxx