Preparing to file, Looking for advice here!

[amg2]

Hope everyone had a fantastic weekend! I think my next level of B.S. might have started tonight with some uncharacteristic "button pushing" by my stbx. Basically he moved some money around in our (still) joint account. He probably thought this would set me off...it kind of did, but not really. I wasn't going to argue about it. So then the texts started non stop. Basically he asked if I was willing to speak to him in person or not (it is typical for him to say he's not talking to me because I don't want to--blame me for his not stepping up). I never did answer that question. I asked what he wanted to talk about and he listed 4 non-lawyer type items. Then based on one of my responses to that started saying that apparently he had no say, blah blah blah. I said "I just asked you to send me a list of items. The list you sent didn't contain anything that we aren't in agreement on or need a lawyer to discuss w us. I don't see the problem." And basically left it at that.

One of the items what what we'll do if we run into each other at a place we often frequented together. Really? That's discussion worthy? How the hell would I know? I told him I didn't know, that I'd never been divorced before. I should have told him it depended how much I'd had to drink Totally joking. I did tell him that I had not interest in being his "friend" or "buddy" if that helped clarify things for him. That he had not treated my like a "friend".

This better not be what I'm in for. I'm not doing it. Not to mention he hasn't had anything to say for 10 months. The good news: It really didn't rattle me. Just annoying. Good to note, as my counselor would say.

Thanks for listening,
AMG