My H and I were separated for about 6 weeks. He had filed D and said he didn't love me anymore, etc. He had an EA that started right before moving out, but it lasted only a month. She wanted more, but he didn't. I did the usual begging, pleading, cying the first month and it was only making things worse. I finally stopped texting, emails, etc. and within a week he started texting me more, making excuses to come by the house, etc. He finally sent me a text and asked if he could come over so we could talk. He said he missed me and us doing things together.

He came over and we had a good talk, ML and he moved home the next day. Although he was only gone 6 weeks it was the longest 6 weeks of my life.

Unfortunately as I write this things are shaky at best. I am wondering if we rushed back into things to quick. My H is now thinking he might want a divorce again. Says he has no passion for me again. I guess time will tell what ends up happening.

I would say piecing starts when the WAS decides they want to work on marriage.


M-34, H-37, No Kids
Married 4yr, Together 6yr
Discovered EA 7/24/10
Separated 8/6/10
Filed 8/16/10
H Moved home and Piecing 9/20/10
H returns to OW 12/10
EA was really PA
I file 12/29/10
I move out 12/30/10