Am I piecing? Just can't tell...

[Harrier]

Does MWD address SBH issue about the damage a WAS can do with their negative statements about the LBS? I know the drill is to not believe anything they say but in reality the WAW believes what they say at the time. And words have impact even if they are "lies."

As for you sbh, I think anyone would tell you the following
1. Women are emotional
2. Women's attraction are tied to emotions.
3. So if she isn't back with her emotions the right now she is not attracted to you.
4. She probably is/was attracted to the OM.
5. If you keep on meeting her emotional needs the attraction will come back.
6. Obviously don't let yourself go physically
7. Many of the normal response aren't attractive - pouting, being mopey, being needy, etc.

Just a few thoughts. I know its tough. For me its hard because the OM in my wife's EA was fatter, older, uglier than I. Plus he had grey hair and my W was very sexually attracted to him. It's a tough pill to swallow.
Makes my angry and wanting to do something stupid to "show her."