Today we had MC and W said things were better and she is committed to our M but that we need to go slow. All that is fine and I understand...
Here is why I am annoyed;
She stated, that "she is afraid that the attraction will not come back"... Now I understand that this is how a WAS feels but do they realize the damage a statement like that causes? How it kills an ego? Soooo stupid!
Now all I want to do is go out and find another woman that will find me attractive/desirable... Fulfill the emotional void SHE is holding back from ME! This is the danger that a WAS needs to be aware of. There is only so many blows to the stomach a LBS can take before it's too late!
I don't think I will but man oh man do I want to!
Any advice?
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
