Saw things clearer once you're in my rearviewmiror

[newmama]

IR-- sadly, your daughter will need to adjust to having 2 separate Christmases because you will be divorced soon. Do you think it would confuse her or do you think she "gets" it?
Mom and Dad together doesn't mean Mom and Dad are getting back together.

I see by the end of your stream of thoughts that you decided to keep it separate and that is best, IMO.

Out of curiosity, were you with your stbxW on Christmas 06? I see in your sig that she left in August of that year but it also looks like you may have spent 07-10 together for Christmas.