NM, glad to see you're dong well. I too got a xmas card from STBXW's extended family...apparently not everyone knows. Though in your case the D is a done deal so that's even more interesting.
What are your xmas plans? unless I missed that update.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again