The OW husband came looking for my H last night. He was banging on next doors window at around 10.30 in the evening, I was homebut in ned and didn't hear anything. He was asking questions like how old is he, is he married does he have children? My neighbour answered what she but then he left. Apparently he stood at the end of the drive way looking up into the house for a while then went home. She came and told me this morning. I don't blame him. He must be going through toture too, but I admit I'm a little frightened. The question, what do I do? Do I tell/warn my H? If this man comes round again do I talk to him? Or ask him to leave me alone? Do we work together to try and get both our marriages back on track? What's best?
